The work of a border collie

I stopped by my parents' house today to steal some of my mom's homemade minestrone, and, upon my arrival, here is what I found:

Current Events

I decided I wanted to start jotting things down here that are going on in the world today, so that I can look back and remember. To sum up... the economy was crappy for a while, but the recession is officially over! Things were bad, I guess the worst they've been since the Great Depression of the 1930s... although, maybe I'm just fortunate, but it didn't seem THAT bad to me.

Two other big things stick out in my mind right now. One is the spread of H1N1 around the United States right now. It's a virus nicknamed the "swine flu" because it is usually found in pigs, but occasionally mutates and becomes infectious to humans.¹ It is a harsher version of the flu, so I hear, and can be much harder to treat.

A friend of ours has a brother who is married to a Chinese woman, and apparently he traveled to China recently to visit relatives and was quarantined at an airport in China because he had a slightly high fever - he was taken away in an ambulance full of personnel in haz-mat uniforms! Crazy, but this thing really has people panicked.

The biggest thing I think that is important to share is that our president, with whom I have the utmost respect, Barack Obama, is currently working on a plan for universal healthcare. There are many reasons people are for or against this policy. I, personally, am for it, but Rod is against it. He, as many others do, feels that we should all have to work to afford healthcare for ourselves and our families, and that if you don't work hard, you don't deserve a handout. However, Obama made it clear to me in his addresses to the nation over the last several months that it will improve healthcare for those of us who already have it, as well as offer it to those who cannot afford it, whether because they're lazy and don't work or because (and more likely) they can't afford it for a reason that isn't really their fault. Not only that, but Obama makes a good point in reminding us that our taxes pay for uninsureds' medical bills, so universal healthcare will benefit us in that way, as well.

Anyway, that's what's going on right now.

Ecological Footprint

Right now I'm taking an environmental science class in school called "Dependence of Man on the Environment," and this week the instructor had us take the Ecological Footprint quiz online. According to my results, if everyone lived the same lifestyle I do, we would need 4.5 Earths!

This is truly, extremely disturbing.

What's even more disturbing is that my score were significantly lower than the country average! So, PLEASE go to this website:

http://www.myfootprint.org
(You do NOT have to provide a donation or your e-mail address - that is OPTIONAL.)

...and calculate your Ecological Footprint. It's very short, it won't take up a lot of your time, and it is worth it and important. At the end, there's a link to advice on how to lower your score.

It got cold so early this fall that I thought winter was coming too soon and the leaves might not even get a chance to change - they were already starting to drop without turning their pretty colors first! BUT, luckily, I was wrong and they ARE changing. Here are some beautiful bushes on our street:

(I would like to make it known that I stopped the car to take this picture with my phone...I was not endangering myself or others!)

Hooray for fall.

And....on an even (much) more exciting note:

ONE OF MY VERY BEST FRIENDS IS PREGNANT! K and B have one son, N, and are now expecting #2!! I am so thrilled for them and wish we lived closer to one another so we could share all the excitement with them in person.

They're due on July 4th. How neat!

Unexpected compliments

Pop came home last night from Maine for the winter. He got in around noon and we all went over to Dan and Daniel's for dinner which was mmm mmm delicious! Dan is one of the best cooks I know (check out Wright's Mill Farm in Canterbury, CT...he's the head chef)! It was great to see him and to spend time together, although the last time we spent together was two months ago when Sharon passed away.

Rod's working on a big case at work right now - a burglary. He wasn't too thrilled going into work last night because I guess doing this can be tedious. He'd much rather be out driving around dealing with things going on on the streets than sitting around in the office writing up reports.

I'm the opposite. I love sitting at a desk at a computer and doing random, relaxing but mind-challenging tasks. It's a good thing we even each other out with things like this. It's the same as how we are at home with chores, which is why he does things like takes our cars to get the oil changed and I sit at the computer and do our bills.

He's such a hard worker and is so darn handsome. I'm so glad that I have a husband I love so much. I think lately, we've been really happy and falling even more in love. It is true that the first year of marriage is a little hectic. Even if you've been living together for two years before you get married, like we did, there are still things to get used to in marriage, and it can be rough at first. But, if you're lucky, you make it past that one year mark and are still best friends.

I'm not the only one that thinks he's special. The other night at a McDonalds the cashier asked for his number! We both got a kick out of this, but it proves just how stunning and impressive he is. :)

I work for a Psychiatric APRN who specializes in child therapy and medication management. One of her patients is a young girl, late elementary-school age, who is very blunt. I really don't think she's capable of lying. One time, a few months ago, she came in and said something very straight-forward that she probably shouldn't have shared with anyone, but did...with the entire waiting room. (I can't remember what it was that she said, but even if I did, I wouldn't say.) I know quite a bit about this patient just by observing her, and I believe that she probably has trouble keeping friends because she says exactly what's on her mind even though it might hurt someone's feelings.

Today she had an appointment and afterwards, her mom came and sat down in the office with me to pay her bill. The girl - I'll call her Charlotte - was standing in the doorway. Today I'm wearing an old blue sweater and black baggy dress pants, and my hair is halfway up and hasn't been washed (I normally don't wash it every day anyway because doing so dries out my already-extremely-dry scalp).

Needless to say, I don't feel like I look my best, and I was honestly thinking to myself when she first came in, "Oh my gosh, if this girl blurts out that I look ugly or that something is wrong with me, I will seriously have motivation to make myself up more often."

Charlotte did stand there in the doorway staring at me, and after a minute said loudly and matter-of-factly, "You're a really pretty girl."

I love my job.

Sharon

I haven't written in a long time. There has been a lot going on, and I didn't really know how to write about this one particular tragedy that recently occurred in our life. But, I will give it a shot now..

My mother-in-law, Sharon, passed away on August 13th. She first told us she wasn't feeling well shortly after her birthday (which was when we went to Pepe's with the Cs), and a week later Rod and Dan convinced (forced) her to go to the hospital. However, it wasn't until a few weeks after that that she was diagnosed with end-stage liver disease - or, at least, that's when I heard it for myself from the doctor (I think the family was in much denial, which is understandable).

We had a small, immediate-family memorial service about a month ago.

It has been a very rough time for all of us, especially Roddy. Daniel is doing okay - he's not very communicative, but he seems to be doing alright. Dan was having an extremely tough time at first, but now he's keeping busy working long hours, making up for the time he spent at the hospital for the few weeks before Sharon's passing.

It was somewhat of a shock and seemed to happen so quickly, but we were all there for the last couple of days with her at the hospital. Trudy and Pop came down from Maine (we had just gotten back from Maine ourselves). Sharon spent the last night of her life in Hospice at Middlesex Hospital which, by the way, is amazing. They were absolutely incredible there and made everything so wonderful for all of us (as wonderful as could be, that is). She was in no pain and Roddy, Dan and I were in the room when she took her last, peaceful breath.

I never knew how much damage can happen to a liver and how much our entire body counts on our liver. TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURS.

Rod is now Daniel's legal guardian (per Sharon's wishes), but he's staying in the house with Dan, it's not being sold. Right now we're still getting through it together, although I don't think anyone ever completely "gets through" the death of someone they love so much.

She was an easily misunderstood, beautiful spitfire and will be greatly missed.

Family Night

Last night we went to Pepe's in New Haven with the C side of the family. It was a lot of fun and the pizza was yummy. Then we went next door and had gelato, Italian ice, cheesecake, canolis, etc. (I had cappuccino gelato).

(Left to right: Daniel, Sue, Lisa, Dyllin, Devon, Shannon, Theresa, Marty, Grampy, Joyce, Nancy, Adam)

It was really great seeing them all again. We hadn't seen them since the wedding! The occasion last night was that Rod's Aunt Sue was visiting from FL. It was the first time I met her and her partner, Lisa. I was so glad to finally meet them!

Now that Rod's weekends are on actually weekend days, we're going to try to plan a cookout so everyone can finally see our (not so) new house. :)

Retirement Party

Yesterday afternoon was my dad's retirement party.

It was really nice. The weather, however, was not.

It poured rain and thundered, but everyone still had a great time. By around seven o'clock, the rain stopped and a beautiful rainbow appeared!

We all went geocaching for a "special" geocache that Emily and Cary hid for my dad. It was a lot of fun.

It was so neat to see how well liked my dad was (and is) at work. He was given several awards and certificates and many gifts, it was really impressive. You can definitely tell how much everyone is going to miss him.

The weirdest thing happened, too! There was a woman there who I thought looked extremely familiar. When I heard someone call her "Gina," I suddenly thought, "I think that's Cheryl's cousin!" After gaining my courage and going over to her with my mom, we asked if she knew Cheryl Main. She looked at me, screamed, and hugged me. Turns out she's known my dad for years! At first, she asked how I "knew Sandy." When I said I was his daughter, she was even more shocked and my mom told her, "...and I'm the other mother!" Gina commented more than once how happy she was that they were "the great parents" that raised me and how it's just so much better when you find out that not only were they great parents but that she really knew my dad and what he was like, so it was just even more amazing.

Cool, huh?

Rod took a zillion pictures with our new camera (as you could probably tell by now). It was nice to meet everyone my dad worked with, especially Cary who threw the party and really looked up to my dad.

All around, it was a nice evening! We're so proud of Mr. P! (:

What is it that I love about July 4th?

It's about waking up to a beautiful, warm, summer day in Connecticut and having arrived at your much-anticipated favorite day of the year.

It's about the picnic on the farm with your family, and all you do all day is pet horses, look for four-leaf clovers and take turns on the tree swing.

It's about throwing on a bathing suit and sundress and heading to Westbrook at noon. (It's about not wearing make-up because it will block the sun from your skin, and who wants that?)

It's about reuniting with friends, family and neighbors that you haven't seen in days, months or even years. It's about the pang in your stomach when you remember the old times. It's about wondering where the years went and realizing how much different and yet the same everyone is.

It's about going out on the motorboat and tubing. It's about getting over the fact that a jellyfish stung you in your rear end.

It's about potato salad and cheeseburgers and hot dogs on the grill. It's about being seventeen and sneaking upstairs with your friends to sip your first Corona.

It's about the sun beaming down and kissing your shoulders until they're pink, red and then finally brown. It's about the first time a boy ever asked for your number, and how bummed you are later that you didn't have time to give it to him before his parents whisked him away.

It's about karaoke, and never having the guts to participate.

It's about fighting with your high school sweetheart all afternoon until the first firework when you immediately forget everything negative and curl up under the stars. It's about him whispering he can see the glow of happiness in your eyes as you watch the fireworks. (It's about realizing that's the nicest thing he ever said to you, and now thanking God for not answering your prayers back then that you'd marrying him. (;

It's about looking left to right and seeing the hundreds of townspeople and their friends lined up along the seawall. It's about everyone facing up at the sky with their mouths partially opened saying "ooh" and "ahh." It's about gazing across the coastline around you and across from you, counting to see how many dozens of private firework displays there are along the Long Island Sound.

It's about lying on a blanket on the beach, laughing with friends and squealing when a sand crab scampers across your bare foot. It's about your neck becoming sore from turning from left to right, left to right to see fireworks close, far, and everywhere around you.

It's about trying to take pictures of the fireworks and ending up with little squiggles of color on a black background in every photo.

It's about listening to the waves rippling along the shore in between every burst of gorgeous, colorful light. It's about the line of smoke that streaks across the moon above you.

It's about clutching your husband's arm as a firework is set up ten feet away from you and you're convinced it will tip over in the sand and shoot in your direction. It's about ignoring every gnat that bites your ankle, and it's about accidentally knocking your heads together and realizing you just killed one of those gnats in between your foreheads. (What weird team work!)

It's about after the firework display, someone yells, "GO!" and all the kids run to collect the little parachute soldiers that soared down from the fireworks.

It's about the sound of Montgomery Gentry singing "This is My Town" as a little boy skips by with a sparkler. It's about Kenny Chesney singing "Back Where I Come From" as you wish every day could be this amazing.

It's about our country's freedom. It's about realizing how far we've come since that miraculous day we won our independence. It's about efforts to decrease global warming, the first African-American president of the United States of America.

I'm in love (with our camera)

Our camera arrived on Tuesday, and it is amazing!!!!

For example:

(Click on the thumbnails to view larger version.)

Obviously, I need to become a better photographer now, but isn't the camera spectacular?! (;

Cholesterol

Today I found out that I have extremely high cholesterol (in the 300s).

Well, I've known I had high cholesterol since the pediatrician told my mom when I was three years old. I was born with it...it's in my genes (just another reason why I should adopt!)...and although it's been made worse with lack of exercise (not diet because I don't eat bacon, I use skim milk and margarine and probably eat eggs and red meat once every six months) I'm not supposed to be hard on myself because no matter what I did, it would still be relatively high.

Dr. B had given me a couple months to try dieting and exercise before he checked my labs again to see if anything improved, and it didn't. Granted, I missed my "daily walks" once every few days, but I was eating lots of veggie soup, NO fatty foods, NO fast food and very little of anything bad at all. I even ate oatmeal.

Oh well. Better safe than sorry...better to be on medication than having a husband worrying you'll have a heart attack, or worse - dead, that's for sure!

Money money money

Less than a month ago, my dad found out he'll be retiring as of July 1st; which to some might seem like a joyous occasion....not so much for my dad. He loves his job and loves working. He works in computer mapping with UConn. Unfortunately they're ceasing to receive grant money (or enough grant money), so he's decided to "just retire" instead of worry about whether he'll have a job in a few months.

It's pretty clear it's not exactly what he wants; I think he doesn't know what he's going to do with his time, although I hear my mom has quite a long "honey-do" list going. ;) They've been talking about spending the whole month of September on Martha's Vineyard, and he and Rod keep talking about walking the Airline Trail (the whole thing, not just the little bits and pieces we do on weekends...that place is SO peaceful and gorgeous!! I can't wait to have our new camera to take pictures there...oops, shh, that's news for later..)

Earlier, we received this e-mail from my mom:

"Cary asked me to ask you and Rod to join us for Dad's retirement picnic if at all possible--I know you work. His coworkers are really nice and, besides, I would be there (big draw I know). I think it would mean a lot to Dad, maybe even stopping by after work for a little while."

(She then said other things irrelevant to my blog post.)

After the message was this e-vite:

We're going, of course! I love my dad...I hope he starts to feel better about all of this soon. It's a huge life-changing process and I'm sure it's not easy.

Today Rod and I broke our bank. Honestly, we probably did with the amount of money we spent. You might even begin to think that we aren't under 25 or have a hefty mortgage - HA! Here are our purchases:

1) Kenmore dishwasher (model name escapes me--called "Best Buy" by ConsumerReports)


2) Canon EOS Rebel XSi SLR camera (takes amazing pictures with 12.2 megapixels and 18-55mm lens)


3) Lenovo (IBM) IdeaPad S10 (extremely durable mini netbook).


We already have a computer that basically doubles as a TV in our office/future nursery. It's enormous and somewhat unnecessary but Rod loved it and really wanted a desktop. It's actually really great, except for those nights that he and I both have school work due and decide to do our assignments/exams at the very last minute (which is more often than not) and have to take turns. Last week I was late on an assignment, so I figured it was about time to get another laptop. This time I decided to go for one of the minis (the IdeaPad screen is 10.2"). Lenovos are apparently the most durable aside from the uber-expensive MacBooks, and it'll be great for portability seeing as I'll be carrying it everywhere with me, and much less expensive than regular 15" screen laptops. Plus, I don't need much memory or hard drive space when I'll just be using it to browse the internet and do schoolwork. Pictures, music, movies, games, etc. I can do on our desktop.

Computer we have now: the HP Touch Smart.


We got the dishwasher at Sears. I got the camera and the netbook from Circuit City because they're much more reasonably priced than the main manufacturer websites. Together, the camera and the computer were just under the amount of money Rod plans to spend on a new gun in the next few weeks (doesn't need it for work but wants it for work and it will enhance his abilities at work). It's actually a rifle...but I won't go into details.. not everyone enjoys information about guns or is used to it like I am by now. :)

We're saving the rest of our accumulated "pleasure money" for our vacation at the end of the summer. We're spending 4 nights on Martha's Vineyard with my parents and from there, 5 nights in Southwest Harbor (Mt. Desert Island, Maine) with Pop, Rod's grandfather. We're pretty excited, this is a tradition for us that we've had since we started dating but didn't do last summer (much too busy with the wedding, job changes, town and house hunting, etc.). It's going to be strange going to Maine, I think, without Rod's grandmother there. :( But I know we'll have fun, and while we're on MV we'll be having our 1 year anniversary! I cannot WAIT to share with you what I'm getting Roddy for a present (first year is paper, and this paper I'm giving him is going to be very well received).

Daniel (my brother-in-law) will be staying here with the dogs and probably with a friend while we're away. So don't even think of breaking in. ;) Not only will we have two young men and two vicious dogs (haha...although I shouldn't laugh because they would probably be vicious with break-ins - for those of you who have ever knocked on our door and not taken our advice to just walk in, they go nuts when they think people are intruding) but we also have a central security system and have already had the police come to our house once when I was too tired to remember to turn it off before I let the dogs outside one morning, so take my advice and stay home. ;)

Speaking of Daniel, did I mention he got his license earlier this month?! Very exciting. Even more exciting is that yesterday, he got his first car! It's a 2006 Chevy Cobalt.


Yes, I'm aware that it's orange.

Oh well. He loves it, it's safe, reliable and good-on-gas, so that's what really matters!

Famous tragedy

Today, two legends passed away... Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett.

Fawcett had been battling cancer and Jackson apparently had a heart attack, although an autopsy will be conducted tomorrow to determine exactly what happened.

Just wanted to make a note of this. Very sad day...

Three Graceful Stone Skips

For Father's Day today, along with a new hiking backpack and some silly cards, I gave my dad a copy of WritingRoom.com's anthology of short stories from its contest a couple months ago (in which I won second place).

It's semi-exciting...I technically had my first story published! You can even purchase the anthology on www.PublishingRoom.com.

"Three Graceful Stone Skips -a collection of stories from WritingRoom's November and December 2008 short story contest" by WritingRoom.

Dean's List: Spring 2009

I don't normally like to brag...but I'm pretty excited about this. ;)

The names that are circled in the second image are Rod's and mine! The text in the first image reads:

Dean's List: Spring 2009

The faculty and staff are pleased to announce the Spring 2009 Dean's List for Ashford University's Center for External Studies, the On-Campus Accelerated Programs and the On-Campus Traditional Programs.

Students in the Center for External Studies and in the On-Campus Accelerated Programs are recognized if they completed twelve or more credits, have a cumulative grade point average of 3.50 or above, and are currently enrolled, attending or on an approved Leave of Absence, and in good academic standing as of May 11, 2009.

Students in the On-Campus Traditional Programs are recognized if they completed six or more credits and received a grade point average of 3.50 or above during the semester ending in May, 2009.

The Ashford University student community includes people from every state in the U.S. and several foreign countries. Even with this large community, don't be surprised to find fellow students in your own hometown!

The students on the Dean's List exemplify a dedication and commitment to their studies, which make them great role models for others to emulate.

To view students' names, click on a specific state to see them listed by their hometown. Names denoted with an asterisk(*) are campus students. Click on the appropriate globe to see international students or U.S. students living abroad.

Scholarship

On Wednesday, Rod was awarded the Allen Ervin Memorial Scholarship from the Connecticut Police Chiefs Association! I am so proud of him. His hard work, motivation and responsibility have gone well noticed by his colleagues and they nominated and voted that he, out of every police officer in the state of Connecticut, deserves this scholarship, which help toward paying for his tuition at Ashford (books are already free because of his veteran status).

We went to the ceremony in Farmington at the Farmington Country Club Wednesday morning for the annual police chiefs meeting, where a retiring board member gave a little speech about his background and professional pictures were taken (which I will share as soon as we get them in about a week or so, they said).

It was really neat because the only people from the department who went besides Rod were his chief, the deputy chief and the captain, all of whom were very nice and interesting to talk to. It was great to speak to them and get to know them, I think they all respect Rod and that will help him a lot in the future!

Smart Ass Answers

These are silly.

SMART ASS ANSWER 6
It was mealtime during a flight. "Would you like dinner?" the flight attendant asked John, seated in the front. "What are my choices?" John asked. "Yes or no," she replied.

SMART ASS ANSWER 5
A flight attendant was stationed at the departure gate to check tickets. As a man approached, she extended her hand for the ticked and he opened his trench coat and flashed her. Without missing a beat, she said, "Sir I need to see your ticket, not your stub."

SMART ASS ANSWER 4
A lady was picking through the frozen turkeys at the grocery store, but she couldn't find one big enough for her family. She asked the stock boy, "Do these turkeys get any bigger?" The stock boy replied, "No, ma'am, they're dead."

SMART ASS ANSWER 3
The cop got out of his car and the kid who was stopped for speeding rolled down his window. "I've been waiting for you all day," the cop said. The kid replied, "Yeah, well, I got here as fast as I could." When the cop finally stopped laughing, he sent the kid on his way without a ticket.

SMART ASS ANSWER 2
A truck driver was driving along on the freeway. A sign comes up that reads, "Low Bridge Ahead." Before he knows it, the bridge is right ahead of him and he gets stuck under the bridge. Cars are backed up for miles. Finally, a police car comes up. The cop gets out of his car and walks to the truck driver, puts his hands on his hips and says, "Got stuck, huh?" The truck driver says, "No, I was delivering this bridge and ran out of gas."

SMART ASS ANSWER 1
The college teacher reminds her class of tomorrow's final exam. "Now, class, I won't tolerate any excuses for you not being here tomorrow. I might consider a nuclear attack or a serious personal injury, illness, or a death in your immediate family, but that's it, no other excuses whatsoever!" A smart-ass guy in the back of the room raised his hand and asked, "What would you say if tomorrow I said I was suffering from complete and utter sexual exhaustion?" The entire class is reduced to laughter and snickering. When silence is restored, the teacher smiles knowingly at the student, shakes her head and sweetly says, "Well, I guess you'd have to write the exam with your other hand."

Jon & Kate Plus 8, Season 5 Premiere

I've watched the show for a long time now. I used to think it was so interesting to see what parenting multiples was like. I never cared for the relationship between J&K, but I liked watching the episodes because of the kids. I definitely think there should be laws relating to child labor and reality tv shows, but other than that, I don't have TOO strong of an opinion about the show and its continuation. It's their life and I don't want to waste my energy hating what they're doing with it. I'd rather focus on my own life and how I plan to raise my own children.

Anyhow, as for the premiere last night, I couldn't believe how different Jon seemed. Even his voice sounded different; he seemed younger and more carefree and less dedicated to his family. Maybe that's just me feeling differently about him now that I've heard all these stories about him cheating or almost cheating with younger women. If he was unhappy, he should have gone about bettering his life in a different way than hurting his family, no matter how horrible his wife was/is to him. As for Kate, whatever she was doing wrong, too, she should have thought of her family. Yes, they both deserve to be happy, but there are so many ways to be happy that don't hurt others.

I don't have any problems with Kate's writing and traveling, although I don't quite understand why she has to travel. I assume her books sell themselves, according to how popular the show is. I thought book tours were just an extra push to sell more copies and make more money, which I doubt she needs. I'd love to be able to stay at home with my kids and simply write about my life...books can be a good source of money if they're big sellers, and then they wouldn't even need the show. They could chronicle their life, tell the world their story, all while Kate stays home with the kids and Jon goes to work to make more money and have the break he so desperately needs. If they need to have a camera to chronicle their kids' lives, why not just videotape it themselves? They say they don't have time, which I'm sure they don't with eight children they need to watch every second, but they also don't need to record every second, do they? Couldn't they just tape a few minutes each week?

I know I don't have eight children, but I also know that there are many families with eight or more children who get by without being on tv. J&K chose to have many children. Whether they hoped for eight or not, they made it a possibility. Again, I don't care enough to feel like they're awful people for living their life how they do. If they want to be on tv every second, more power to them. However, it was more than clear at the end of last season that Jon was very unhappy about his life on television and Kate should have listened.

The episode last night made me sad for the family. I have wondered how much is played up by TLC to wrench our hearts and make us continue watching. Regardless, it was sad for a family in real life to go through that, and my heart goes out to all of them, despite their faults and issues.

Mother's Day

First of all, Happy Mother's Day to all you proud mamas out there!

Today I went over to my parents' house for lunch. We had chicken ceasar salad and talked about upcoming vacations. Then, my mom broke out this big plastic bag full of cards and letters sent to them in the weeks after they found out I was arriving. It was amazing, I read through all of them and teared up when I read the ones from people who are no longer with us.

You may think I have WAY too much time on my hands (or maybe it's just that it took me less than a half an hour because I type at lightning speed, ha!) but I typed them all up so I can preserve them forever in case they're ever lost or ahem, eaten by a dog...

I thought I'd share them in this blog since it is Mother's Day and I am just so grateful to have been placed with the family that I grew up with. I am so thankful that I was raised by two amazing, loving parents and can't thank them enough for the life they've given me. Obviously, the italics are the parts that were written on the cards, the non-italics are what people actually wrote themselves.


(Letter from Foster Parents)

Her pacifier is her friend. Since Caley has had the yeast infection she sometimes doesn't want the cereal but will take the formula fine.

Caley's Schedule:

Caley wakes about 5AM sometimes for a 4oz bottle and then about 7:30AM for breakfast. She has a 4oz bottle plus a teaspoon of cereal. After breakfast she has her bath and sometimes a 2oz bottle before going to sleep. She wakes up about 10:30AM or 11AM for another bottle and stays up for awhile. I cuddle her and play with her during this time. About 12:30AM she takes another bottle then goes down for her afternoon nap. She will wake about 2:30PM for another bottle. Then about 4:30-5 o'clock she will eat supper and a small bottle with her cereal. She has a fussy time b etween that and 10PM. She will then take a bottle in between 5 and 10PM. She likes to be rocked to sleep or layed on the sofa and pet her back. She likes a musical crib mobile.

Caley has had ear infections. She was put on amoxicillin and then switched to ceclor which she had a reaction to. She became extremely fussy and crying hard. She then returned to the amoxicillin. The ear infections are cleared up now but Caley came down with a yeast infection in her mouth and on her bottom. In the silver tube is hycogen cream which should be used on the bottom until the rash is gone.

The bottle of medicine is nyptatin. That is applied to mouth 4x daily until Friday when Caley should be seen by a doctor to see if it has cleared up. Caley got this yeast infection from medication. Started the nyptatin on 4/23/86. Apply with q-tips all around inside of mouth.

The hycogen cream is used on her bottom 3x a daily until rash is gone. Started 4/25/86.

Other than ear infections Caley is an excellent baby.

She is lovable.
She likes to be cuddled.
She sleeps when riding in a car.

Things we have said to Caley:

"Daddy loves you."
"Mommy loves you."
"Sister loves you."
"Pat-a-cake."
"Mommy's little sweetheart."

Today, April 29th.

Caley has had her mouth medicine twice. Next time late this afternoon and 10 minutes before her night bottle. Caley has had her bowl movement today. She will be a little off schedule today but when she cries she will let you know she's hungry. Her next bottle should be about 12:30.

Caley loves to be cuddled.


(Mom's Letter/Journal to me)

4-25

With one telephone call our lives have changed forever. When Marge said "I have some news for you" I was shaking, sweating, screaming and excited. I found out that you were born on March 3 (Monday) and you weighed 7 lbs 13 oz. On March 24 you weighed 9 lbs. You were a full-term baby and you are healthy. You have blonde hair and blue eyes. That's all I know. I called your father who couldn't take it all in. We've been waiting for a baby for many years (7) and suddenly, you're almost here.

I called your aunts, your grandmother, your grandfather and friends (Mary, Wendy, Renee and Jill). Everyone was so excited. Many people cried. You have been wished for for so long.

Finally Sandy came home at 5:00 and we began talking. What should we call you? We love Anne. Many women on the Ford/Cone side of our family were named Anne. Grandmommy's mother was Annie Lee Gillette, Anna's (grandfather called Anna, his name was Thomas) sister was Anne, Anastasia was Sandy's grandmother. Constance is my mother's and sister's name. Anne Constance is a name of strength and steadfastness; names other people have had who are/were special to us. Annie you are.

Lots of people want to give parties to celebrate your arrival.

Always whenever I see daffodils or grape hyacinths I will think of your arrival into our lives. I can't wait to meet you.

4-26

Today we went shopping for your carseat, infant seat, some other necessities.

4-29

Marge put you in my arms and you began to hiccup. You had such a pretty face. Daddy kept saying, "What a treat you are."

You fell asleep in your car seat on the ride home. Both Daddy and I kept just staring at you. We just couldn't believe we really had a daughter as wonderful as you.

When we arrived home you had a telegram from Jill, Tom and Hailey. There were balloons tied along the driveway and 2 big bunches of pink balloons on the doors welcoming you home. I put a bunch on the mailbox so people going by would know you had arrived and how happy we were.

You make such noise when you eat - gurgles, inhales.

4-30

Gran came to visit today and she brough you presents - a portacrib, blanket and clothes. She loves you. You smiled at us today. You like to be changed.

5-1

Mike and Esther came to see you today. They were so happy they cried! They brought you presents too. Everyone is calling us and sending cards to celebrate you coming into our lives.

Dr. G said, "She's a doll" on your first visit today.

5-2

Wendy and Skye visited today and brought you flowers with the beautiful quilt of hearts.

We went for a long walk today - you slept soundly in the snugglie. Gramps came late this afternoon and said you were terrific.

5-3

Mary visited you today. I think you felt sick today because you wouldn't sleep and you cried a lot.

You were two months old today.

5-4

Today you found your fist and could suck on it. We sat outside for a while and watched Daddy build the back steps. It was windy.

Gran visited again and brought you some flowers - violets, periwinkle and forget-me-nots. Gran held you.

Renee and Bruce visited too.

You were great today - you're great every day.

5-5

Daddy went to work today. Poor Daddy. I'm glad I get to stay home with you. I'm lucky. You woke up around 8:30 - late - because you woke up at 3:30AM - unusual. Right now you're asleep in my arms. That is the nicest feeling in the whole world for me.


Sandy and Deedee P celebrate the arrival of Anne Constance, April 29, 1986 born March 3, 1986. 7 lbs 13 oz.

April 25, 1986. Dear Annie, Hi, by the time you are old enough to read this letter, I hope that you will know who I am and the special relationship I have with your mom and dad. I am writing you this letter because growing up can be hard. You may have periods in your life when you will struggle with the process. I have five children, some of whom have grown up lots, and some that still have lots of growing up to do! I just got a call from your mom and she told me that you were going to come next week. What joyous news that was! Your parents have waited a long time for that phone call to come from the agency. I have known your mom and dad for many years. I don't know two people that could possibly make better parents. It was sad that they were unable to give birth, but because they wanted to share their love and life with a child they decided to do the next best thing, adopt. That's how they were lucky enough to get you. Your parents prayed, hoped, and wished for a long time to get a baby. When you get down, just remember how very much you were wanted. And, I am sure, are loved. It takes a very special person to want to be a parent, with all the risks and rewards inherent in the process. Having given birth, I am sure it was difficult for your natural mother to give you up. She, too, must have loved you very much. God was smiling on you when he picked Sandy and Deedee to be your parents. You are a lucky girl, as I am sure they are feeling lucky. One of the qualities I admire most in your mom is her ability to talk and process information and feelings. Talk to them both and grow in their love for you. Looking forward to meeting you! Love, Renee

April 26, 1986. Dear Deeds and Sandy, The excitement level is pretty high around here but I know it can't compare to the excitement and thrill in Chester! Here's a few little things for Anne Constance, we'll definitely be thinking of you this coming week. Our love to you all! Joan and John

April 27, 1986. My dear Deedee and Sandy, My heart is so full of joy that I must somehow release it. The news of your beautiful daughter's arrival gave me wings and so much happiness! Anne Constance P is so blessed as well, for you two will bring her always into a world of rich understanding and caring. I love to think of all the fun you'll have together along the way - it will far outweigh the prickles on the path. Joe joins me in sending special love around your circle and we're on tip toe to meet your darling. Dear love, Tassy

Dear Mommy and Daddy P, Here are a few of the zillion things I could think of pertaining to Annie and your new life together. We're so glad she's finally here! Hallelujah! (I'm so thrilled and excited for you I can't spell and my grammar went to hell!) The three of you have so much to look forward to!! You just won't believe how wonderful it is til you experience it for yourselves. You'll find she was worth all of those long years of waiting! Anyway, enjoy every moment! And call if you have questions. Her foster parents are your best resource in the beginning. We're ecstatic for the three of you! Love, Sally, Bert and Tarren.
General Suggestions: Get plenty of film for your camera! Make sure there's plenty of food in the house for the two of you! You've got to maintain your stamina in order to take care of Annie. It'll save trips to the store. Rest when you're tired. Let the house go. When she gets home, just have the two of you hold, feed, change, etc. her for a week or so. Passing her around will confuse and upset her. Tell her who you are. This sounds very crazy, I know. Dr. Baker told us to tell Tarren that we were her parents, that we'd been waiting for her a long time and that we loved her very much! He feels babies know a lot more than people give them credit for. Obviously, they don't know the langugae but they respond to your voice, tone, etc. One thing Dr. Baker told us that was very helpful. Sometimes let her lie in the crib, infant seat, etc. and just look around. You're tempted to hold them constantly at first. However, if you never put her down she'll expect that all the time and will fuss whenever you put her down. In one sense you're teaching her what to expect. If you hold and play with her continually she'll always expect it. Also, don't be afraid to let her fuss a little. That's her outlet. Crying releases pent up tension. She'll sleep better too if she cries from time to time. Try to keep her on the schedule she's accustomed to. Babies like a fixed routine. She'll feel more secure, too. Skin-to-skin contact is good. If we'd had a big enough bath tub the three of us would have gotten in together for a warm bath. She's got to get used to your smells, voice, skin, etc. Same goes with the two of you getting acquainted with her. Tarren smelled like a stranger to us in the beginning. Now she doesn't, she's family. Don't get upset if you feel like you're babysitting in the first few days. It's normal. Bonding happens at a different rate for everybody. It takes time to get to know each other. You'll learn her cues and what they mean. After a while you'll know a hungry cry from a tired cry or just fussing. It's amazing how you learn their signals. She'll let you know her needs. We had so much company and phone calls that it was overwhelming. If people press you to come over tell them when it's not a good time or if you're too tired. Don't be afraid to take the phone off the hook. Once the word is out it'll ring constantly! The baby's needs and your own have to come before anybody else. If you'd given birth to her and had just come home from the hospital people would let you recover. You're still entitled to private family time and emotional recovery! People feel they have the right to ask all kinds of questions about an adopted baby. Some of their questions and comments may throw you. Annie is entitled to her heritage before anyone else. When Tarren first came home poeple told me she looked a lot like me. This upset me at first. However, it doesn't anymore, we feel like she was custom made for us. Many adoptive families have this experience. I feel God works in mysterious ways. Tarren was sent to us for a reason. You'll develop your own beliefs about Annie. When I'd run into people in town who didn't know we adopted they'd comment about how great I looked after just having a baby. I'd thank them and say I played a lot of tennis! You don't have to explain Annie's arrival if you don't want to. A lot depends on the person making the comments and how comfortable you are with them. People, in general, are ignorant about adoption and harbor some myths that aren't true.

April 29, 1986. Sandy and Deedee, A little girl! A baby girl to cuddle and love. How happy you must be! Congratulations and best wishes! Bill, Dana and Billy

May 1, 1986. Dear little one, Dick and I can't think of two better parents than Deedee and Sandy. You're a lucky little girl. We know you are beautiful and can't wait to see you. Love and kisses, Hope and Dick

May 2, 1986. Dear Annie, Welcome to the world! Can't wait to meet you. You sure picked a sterling pair of parents! Love, Linda, Chuck, Sarah, and Christian. P.S. Chuck "clipped" these for you!

May 4, 1986. Dear Deedee, I spoke to my parents recently who told me your wonderful news - joy of joys! Congratulations! I know that you two had been waiting a long time and it must be unbelievable to have the wait behind you and the reality of your own little baby right there. What excitement. The exclosed gifts may be a bit on the large size but sooner or later it will fit. My thoughts are with you and best of luck in the next few months, and a big hug to Anne Constance (or is it the other way around?). Much love, Nan

May 6, 1986. Dear Deeds and Sandy, CONGRATULATIONS! I hope to see all of you the next time we're down that way! I think of all of you often, and as a matter of fact, the night I heard you were having a baby, friends of ours up here just got news of adopting their second child. Let me know when your baby arrives! I'll be thinking of you. Oh YAY! Love, Sarah

May 11, 1986. Annie, Thank you for making this a Mother's Day to celebrate. Love, Doug, Betsy, Stuart and Kemp

May 11, 1986. Just a wee collection of necessaries for Deedee, Sandy and Annie! With our love, Tassy and Joe

May 13, 1986. Dear Deedee and Sandy, When mother told me of your exciting news for some reason I had expected the big event. Am anxious to meet my great niece. Love to all, John

May 16, 1986. Dearest Deeds and Sandy, Congratulations! I am so happy for you (I even cried when I got the news). She's a very lucky girl to have parents like you. Wishing you love, luck, patience and sleep. Ellen

May 20, 1986. Deedee and Sandy, It was great to hear of Anne Constance's arrival. I'm looking forward to seeing her one of these days. Little does she know how long-waited seh was. I know you're very fine parents. You're probably already experts by now. Hannah and Carisa have enjoyed this book a lot. Hope Anne does one of these days, too. I'm so happy for you! Love, Doris

June 1986. Dearest Anne, This is proof that you were "born with a silver spoon in your mouth." We are so happy you are here at last. With much love to you and your mommy and daddy. Mary

August 6, 1986. Annie dear, Someday I hope that you will watch gulls like these fly lazily over the pond and the ocean. In the meantime, little one, grow and flourish and be happy. Gran wishes you could be here for a visit with her. Love and many kisses, Gran

September 10, 1986. Dear Annie, Thank you for bringing your mom over to Guilford before we left. It was nice to see both of you, and everyone has been enjoying your pictures. We are having a wonderful vacation, the weather has been perfect. We are in Portland now after our nice visit in Vancouver. Love to you and Mom and Dad, Grandma and Grandpa

Annie, Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all, I am sure that with the roots and wings that your parents have given you that is possible! Enjoy life! Love, Renee

Hugs and kisses, smiles and sighs, reflections of love in sweet baby's eyes. Congratulations! And love, Margot and Warner. Thrilled for you, look forward to meeting Annie on June 8!

For Anne-with-an-E. Welcome home. Love to you, Great Aunt Loie

Dear Deedee, Sandy and Annie! Wishing you all the very best! You will certainly be great parents. Happiness always! Fondly, Audrey and Fred

Love to baby. And much happiness to you all! Love, Jo-Ann

Dear Deedee and Sandy, Bill and I are so happy about your little girl and know she must be a joy to you both. We can hardly wait to see her when you bring her to the Vineyard. I think the beauty of a couple's love really flowers when they can share it with their child. My favorite poem and now Wendy's is as follows: "Not of my flesh, not of my bone, but nevertheless, my very own. Remember my child for each single minute, you were born, not under my heart, but in it." Have a wonderful, happy time with your little girl, we rejoice with you. Love, Judy and Bill

Baby: Handy way of disposing of unwanted cash and filling up free time while cutting down on unnecessary sleep, curtailing a demanding social life, and curing a neurotic obsession with personal hygiene. Congratulations! Love, Steve, Beth and Brian

Obviously a very good year. Much love to two wonderful people and one very fortunate child. Love, Charlotte and Eddie, Kyle and Erika

Little girls are precious gifts sent to us wrapped in roses and rainbows. Congratulations. And we should know! The H's

For you baby. A little gift for baby and coming with it, too, a wish for happiness ahead for every one of you! Amelia

With special love and best wishes for many happy Father's Days. Grandmommy

For baby. We are just so thrilled and happy for you and your folks! A family at last! God bless. Our love, Sally, Bert and Tarren

Love and best wishes to you and your parents. Liesel

Congratulations to the Ps! I hope the years ahead are filled with wonderful moments, and delightful days, all adding up to a lifetime of love and joy together. Warmest regards, Adanna

To welcome your baby girl. Dear Sandy and Deedee, I can't tell you how happy I, we, am, are, that your dream has finally come true. I'm sure you'll be great in your new roles and that Annie will be a source of love, peace and constant joy. Love, David and Vicki

Dear Annie, I'm having a good time here in Virginia. How are you? I made a new friend named John. I learned how to ride my bike without training wheels. We went to Luray Caverns. I bought a new canteen, and Mom and Dad bought me an Indian necklace. See you soon. Love, Krista

Dear Annie, Hi. We are in the Blue Ridge Mountains now. The weather is great. We are doing lots of bike riding and hiking, and lots of eating. Be seeing you soon. Love, Shana

Dear Annie, Since your daddy has been my godchild in name only I have made this Christmas stocking to show my love to all of you. I hope we will meet you one of these days. With much love, Dorothy

Congratulations! Mary, Cindy, Bob, Nancy, Megan, Bud, David, Jon, Bill, Greg, Jim, Lynn, Debbie, Al, Danny, Bruce, Martha

To Anne Constance with love in every stitch. From the Ts

A baby in the family? How very happy you must be! Congratulations. Deedee and Sandy, We are thrilled to hear about Anne. Love, Mary Lou and Kip

Welcome to the world! Welcome Annie! We're so thrilled for you both. I know you're going to make a wonderful family! Love, Kathy and Al

Dear Sandy and Deedee, This is wonderful news and we're both thrilled and are looking forward to seeing Anne Constance (great name). Of course this is late but I've gotten very bad about promptness. We'll see you soon. Love, Duane and Denise

A daughter! What wonderful news! This brings a special welcome to your someone sweet and small, for news about your daughter is the happiest news of all! Congratulations and best wishes. Love, Jeannie, Steve, Jeff and Jenny

Congratulations on your new baby! Don't hesitate to let me know if you need any advice. I'm an expert at 2:00 a.m. feedings. Love, Thelma and Bob

A baby girl. How very happy you must be! Congratulations. Sorry to miss your shower, but send all my love to you, your mother and father. Pat

Rock-a-bye baby on the tree top. I heard the good news. The cradle will rock! Congratulations! Hi! To Annie. Love Allison

A baby girl! Just think of all the happiness she'll bring into your home, not to mention stray kittens and homeless puppies, drippy ice cream cones, the neighbor's flowers, fuzzy caterpillars. Congratulations! With much love, the M family

Congratulations to a great pair on your new addition. We wish you all the happiness in the world. Love, Bob, Margie and Allison

Best wishes to you and your new baby. Today, may special gladness begin for both of you, for you must be very happy with your little someone new! Tomorrow, as your baby grows still sweeter and more dear, may all the joys of parenthood increase with every year! Always, may your family be blessed with dreams come true, and may each day to come hold lasting happiness for you! Congratulations. With lots of love from Morley and Eleanor

Congratulations on your new names, Mommy and Daddy. With hugs, kisses and a warm welcome to Annie and best wishes to you both! Love, Judy (and Bud, too!)

May the new baby bring you much happiness and joy. Congratulations. And love to you both and little Annie. Mary Jane and Ted

Hooray today! Mr. and Mrs. James R.

Congratulations on your new arrival! Dear Sandy and Deedee, John and I are so happy to hear about Annie. We feel like it's getting that much closer to reality for us. John's sister (who has three kids now) gave us a bunch of baby clothes last weekend. Hope we can all get together soon! Love, Cindy and John. Not flesh of my flesh nor bone of my bone, you're still miraculously my own. Don't ever forget for a single minute you grew not under my heart, but in it.

Congratulations on your new baby girl! Sincere congratulations and warmest wishes, too, that life will always hold the best for your little girl and you. We are so very happy for you! Fondly, Fred and Rosalie

For the new parents. Powder and pull toys, tiny white socks. Teddy bears, rattles, and alphabet blocks. Lullabies, laughter, contentment and love. These are the things that a baby's made of. Dear Deedee and proud papa, and welcome to baby Annie! How wonderful for all of you. David and Suzanne

And baby makes three! Congratulations. We are so happy and thrilled for you both! Love, Bruce and Renee

Dear Deedee, Congratulations on your new addition! I heard from Claire that you have a new baby and I think that is grand. I know how thrilled you must be and I know that the hard knocks of all these doctors must seem like light years ago. This has to be the perfect time to be a new mother and a new father. Just think of how easy life is with disposable diapers! Again, my best regards to you, your husband and baby. Anita

A new baby! Such a tiny bundle of joy. It's all that other stuff you lug around that's a pain in the neck! Congratulations! Doreen, Rick, Jill, Rob, Charlie, Celia and Anna

What a sweet little baby! And what lovely parents, too! Congratulations. We're very happy for all three of you! Welcome Annie. Love and congratulations, Taffy and Jay

A girl! What a sweet beginning to a happy-ever-after! Congratulations and best wishes. Sandy and Deedee, We're so happy for the two of you. Can't wait to see the little sweetheart! Love, Carol and Joe

Welcome to the clan, Annie. Love, Laura, Claudia, Katharine and Brian

Count us in with all the rest who wish you years of pleasure. We hope the days of "growing up" are days you'll treasure. A baby gift from all of us at Academy!

Deedee, Your card went through here and on to Wendy. We are so thrilled for you, Sandy and little Anne Constance. Hope we have a chance to see her one of these days. We were so excited about her we called Wendy to tell her. Really did send the card as we thought it was so cute. Good luck to all of you. Fondly, Barb

Baby girls are wonderful. Little girls are wonderful, they have the nicest way of bringing beauty into the world and sunshine to each day. Little girls are wonderful, they're precious dreams come true when they're as special as the one who's come to live with you! Congratulations. To Deedee and Sandy. Jackie, James and Beth

God, bless the little new life that has come into this home. It is too young to wonder about itself yet. It laughs and cries and sleeps as all babies do. It reaches out its arms to be held, fed, comforted. It doesn't ask, "Who are my parents?" It simply knows that it is loved and wanted and therefore has parents. God, bless these parents who worked and waited so long for its coming. Bless the room they have fixed up so tenderly for it, the plans they have for it, their apprehensions for it. And ease the secret apprehensions they have about themselves. Help them to see that they are better prepared than many whose children are not always welcome. And that mere blood is no guarantee of love or wisdom. Reveal to them the beauty of being adoptive parents. For to adopt is to choose, voluntarily to accept the responsibility of an otherwise parentless child. And let this lucky child of their adopting comfort and cherish them, too. Bless the home they will have together, the family they will beb. And when they ask, "Who am I?" let the answer be, "You are mine and I am yours and we are all God's children." Words from author Marjorie Holmes that seemed appropriate! Claire

Hoping that this Mother's Day will bring you lots of pleasure, with moments filled with happiness and memories to treasure. With special love to mother, dad and Annie. Grandmommy

Want a great Mother's Day? Get up real early, pile the kids, the dog, sandwiches, potato chips, soft drinks, games and a radio into the car, then go back to bed and sleep! Happy Mother's Day! We really don't think "Annie" has you at this stage! Every wish for your happiness on your first Mother's Day. Love, Mike and Esther

What is a baby girl? A baby girl is someone to love and cherish, too, a special little dream come true who'll fill the years with joy for you and fill your hearts with love. Congratulations and best wishes to all of you. Love, Jim, Carol, Nathaniel, Benjamin, Joshua and Jared

Having had the joys of three girls myself, I know the happiness and pleasures you have before you. The three of you are so lucky to have each other! Happiness always, love, Barbara

Dear Deedee and Sandy, We are just so happy for all three of you! I bet this year you will be the first ones to church on Children's Day! Love, Jeanie and Skip

Dear Sandy and Deedee, We just heard your wonderful news. It is so exciting to become parents and we are very happy for all of you. We are looking forward to meeting your new daughter! Gary and Carol

Sharing in your joy today, for the precious new life God has sent your way. Congratulations! Dear Deedee and Sandy, Are we ever happy for you! It is very exciting and life won't ever be the same again! Ever so much love and blessings galore. Lucy and Pat and Co.

Dear Deedee and Sandy, Carl and I are so happy for you! What a lucky little girl is Anne Constance to have found the two of you as parents. Please send a picture now and then so that we may share in your joy just a little bit! Love, Pat and Carl

Dear Deedee and Sandy, Welcome Annie!!! Love, Sally, Bert and Tarren. Annie, I'm so glad you've finally come home. You're lucky, just like me, because your mommy and daddy really love and appreciate you! I can't wait to meet you in person!! Love, Tarren

Welcome home to Annie! To a girl whose arrival heralds new beginnings for her parents. Much much love and joy to you all. Con and Willie

Dear Deedee and Sandy, Congratulations on your baby girl! A little girl to share your hearts. How wonderful for you. May all your days be filled with joy and may your dreams come true! We were so excited to hear about Annie!! Good news travels fast. You must both be thrilled. Your dreams have come true!! The best to all of you. Love, Laurie, John and Jacob

Congratulations on your new little one. Wishing you joy, wonder and some sleep. With lots of love and support, Mary

Congratulations Deedee and Sandy for your new arrival. Lots of love, Beth, Steve and Brian

Eyes so bright and tiny feet, dimpled hands and a smile so sweet. A darling girl, so cute and small. Congratulations to you all! We're so happy for the three of you! Dennis and Pat and children

Sandy and Deedee, We are so happy for both of you! What a wonderful time of year to have a new baby, with the weather being so warm to take walks and naps outside. Just savor all those times, because before you are even aware, she'll be walking and you'll be running!! Enough of the serious stuff, and by the way, I love her name!! I only know one other Annie in the area and she is just adorable and a great kid. I'm sure for the next week or so you'll need to figure out a good routine, and you will. After that, let's get together for that glass of wine we talked about!! Looking forward to seeing all three of you very soon. Love, Carol and Dan

With love and best wishes to "Annie" and her mom and dad! Mike and Esther

Something for baby. Hoping it'll be fun to choose something your little one can use! Congratulations. Congratulations, dear Sandy and Deedee. I bet you are both very happy with your little girl. I was glad to hear from you. And the good news. God bless you all. With love, Aunt Anna

Deedee and Sandy, Congratulations and best wishes! This sometimes crazy world displayed excellent taste in choosing both of you to guide a child through life. Fondly, Marcia

A baby girl! Just a wee bundle, not very old, so sweet to kiss and cuddle and hold. Best wishes to you and that new little dear, who'll bring you much happiness year after! I was so thrilled to hear your wonderful news. Best wishes to you all. Alice

Dear Anne Constance, We are all so glad you are here. May life be kind to you. Love, the B family

Congratulations on the new arrival. Dear dear Deedee and Sandy, The happiest news we have heard since I can't remember when! Your new daughter will be your joy and everyone who loves you shares in the celebration of welcome. Love to you both and to Anne Constance who must have been from under a lucky star to have drawn you two. Hugs and kisses, Ned and Connie and the rest of the C family

You've adopted someone special. Congratulations! May life hold words of happiness and many blessings, too, for you and that sweet little one who's come to live with you. We are so thrilled and delighted for you both on the arrival of Anne Constance (such a beautiful name)! Best wishes, Ilona, Richard and Sarah

You've come a long way baby! Congratulations on your new software! Katrina, Tom and Joshua

Annie dear, Taste all the good things and eat the spinach and broccoli. Love, Connie

Congratulations on your baby's arrival. We are so thrilled for you. Can't think of anyone who deserves more happiness. Welcome, Anne. Call if I can help or you just would like to talk. Love, Trudi, Jeffrey and Zachary

Congratulations. Hope you're having the time of your life with her. Love, Claire and Jim

Daughters bring such joy! This comes with warm wishes for a lifetime of joy for you and your new little girl. Deedee and Sandy, We're so happy for you! John and Jackie

Best wishes to baby and you. This card is coming, baby dear, with a special welcome to you and sincere congratulations to your very proud parents too! And here's an extra wish it's bringing from the undersigned, "May the new little blossom of your family tree bring joys of every kind." Love to all from Aunt Helene

To welcome your new baby, best wishes for today, tomorrow and always. Today, may special gladness begin for all of you, for you must be very happy with your little someone new! Tomorrow, as your baby grows still sweeter and more dear, may all the joys of parenthood increase with every year! Always, may your family be blessed with dreams come true and may each day to come hold lasting happiness for you! Congratulations and love, Aunt Muriel and Uncle John and cousins

To welcome your new little girl. Congratulations to you both and best of wishes, too, to that brand-new baby daughter who has just moved in with you! Dear Sandy and Deedee, what wonderful news! Love, Bruce and Marilyn

Dear Deedee and Sandy, We are all so happy for you and yours. Our special regards and love. We're looking forward to seeing you soon. Everyone at Kids and Co.

Dear Anne, We welcome you with joy and hopes for a long and contented life. Our love to you, Mary, Jack, Joanna and John

Dear Sandy and Deedee, We're so happy to hear about the exciting news! You must be just thrilled to have a little girl! She has a beautiful name too! We bet you're settled in your new place by now and have survived a first winter there! We are planning to move into our first home next onth here in Plainville not far from where you are now! We both just took a real estate course and hope to be selling when school gets out. It's a "hot" market out there right now! We're both still teaching, but looking forward to that last day in June. My new special ed class was lovely this year, the 10-12 year old kids are great, just like you said last summer! We'd love to see you all soon at your convenience! Keep in touch and again, congrats on becoming new parents! Love, Susan and Mitch. P.S. Hope your folks are fine. Have a happy holiday weekend!

I'd like to talk to you about commitment. I'm putting you in a home. Mr. and Mrs. Ridgway, Mr. and Mrs. Schreiber

A baby's hands can touch so much, your hearts, your lives, your love. Congratulations on your new baby girl. So happy to hear the news! Best wishes, Edythe

Oooh baby, we're so glad you're here! Welcome, Annie! You truly are a welcomed child. You have very special parents. All our love, Doug, Betsy, Stuart and Kemp

So your little girl is here! There's a special sunshine in the home, a gladness in the air that seems to breathe the happy news, a brand new baby's here! A sweet and precious baby girl, so tiny and so new, has come to share your hearts and home, how wonderful for you! Congratulations to you all. Love, Rick, Lorrie, Krista and Shana

Your dream come true. It's wonderful. Love, Sheila

Daughters bring such joy! This comes with warm wishes for a lifetime of joy for you and your little girl. Love, John and Gloria

A little girl is special. She'll make you smile, she'll make you laugh, she'll make you love her dearly. And the happiness she brings will double daily, monthly, yearly! Congratulations and warmest wishes to all of you. Love, Helen

Congratulations and much happiness to all of you! Mary Anne, Cheryl, Judy, Barbara, Michele, Terri, Sharon, Andrea, Julie, Diane, Sherry

Dear Annie, I hope I see you sometime soon. I hope you have a nice time at Deedee and Sandy's house. I am going to see you sometime soon (...that's for Deedee and Sandy). When I see you I will have a present for you Annie. I'm glad you were adopted. Are you a nice baby? Love, Skye

You've adopted someone special! May the very special child who has come to live with you bring you every happiness and make your dreams come true. Congratulations. We are so happy for you. Phil and Esther

Happiness is a baby girl. You two are so lucky and your baby is, too. She just couldn't find nicer parents than you. Best wishes for happiness always. Lesley

Welcome home Annie. Love, Shane

Dear Deedee and Sandy, Your dear baby girl is a very special blessing. Your dear little daughter, so tiny and new, is a blessing, and sure to be special to you. For the love that you give to your daughter each day will enrich your life, too, in a wonderful way. Aunt Irene

Deedee, A new baby girl! The waiting is over, the fun has begun, your sweet little daughter is here. May joy come to you and your new baby, too, a joy that grows year after year! Congratulations. So, was I right? Your day has come! I wish you all a life of joy and love. Marge

Congratulations to the baby who chose such wonderful parents. Need I say more? All my love, Andy

Congratulations on your new baby. Just bet the new baby's a darling and simply adorable, too. Your baby just has to be especially nice, with a mother and father like you! Best wishes to baby and the happy parents. Love, Alexis, Christina and the I.A.F. Team

23 years ago today...

...I met my parents for the first time! :)

Today is my "adoption day" or "gotcha day" depending on what you want to call it. On April 29, 1986, my parents picked me up from Catholic Charities in Norwich, CT and drove me home, hiccupping all the way while stuck in traffic on the New London Bridge.

We always celebrate this day as being just as important as my birthday. Although it's very exciting that I have lived for over 23 years, it's equally exciting that I have had the family and the life I've had for 23 years now, too! :)

This year, my birthday and adoption day are especially special because last year at this time, I didn't know my biological family yet, and now I do!

While I was at work today, Rod surprised me with lunch and a very sweet card, as he always does, and tonight we're going to dinner with my parents in Middletown. Should be fun! :)